Wedding demands

Though some part of me wants a simple civil ceremony, majority of me wants a bombastic wedding, one where i as long as everyone else would have an amazing time. after all, it's going to be the last wedding in my immediate family before the next generation's turn comes by. and being the youngest among all from my maternal side and the uber pampered from paternal side, my wedding should be much memorable,right? hehe :P

so many dreams even before the man of my life is before me...or maybe he is,heh.
well, there's no harm in dreaming and penning down my thoughts and reviewing it while planning for the big day!
so here it goes.

If i marry a local and the wedding takes place in Singapore:

I'd want to keep it simple and classy.
Day 0: Bachelorate's party with closest friends at some place
Day 1: Haldi and Henna ceremony at home with just close friends and family (Stayover)
Day 2: Nikah at a wedding hall. ladies and gents separated, immediately after signing the papers i'd want the guy to come over, lift the veil,put the ring on,salam,photos. head to the plamain...have the joota churai, salam karai, wishes for us from my side of the family and end it off with bidaai.
Day 3: Breakfast coming from ze family and an awesome day of games, fun and laughter.
Day 4: Reception @ where ever they want to hold it but there must be an aweosme dj, a HUGE cake :D  and again wedding wishes from family and friends and this time i hope to hear something from the guy as well,keke ^^

If my marriage takes place in India (hoping it will,HAHA):

Day 1: Gift wrapping and keeping things properly.

Day 2: Haldi ceremony - I'm going to make sure everyone turns yellow!

Day 3: Henna Ceremony - stayover,make everyone do silly things, play with fire crackers

Day 4: Nikah Ceremony-

I expect the groom to be seated in a room beside mine, and a microphone system to be installed so i can hear what the groom has to say in order for the marriage to 'take place' and yes as crazy as it sounds, i do want to scream my lungs out when i say 'i do'.
After the signing of the papers, i want someone to recite a naat for all of us.
Then i want the groom after he has done all his huggings and hand shakes to come over, lift the veil, put the ring and let me salam him and kiss his hand and have a photo session together.
We can then go separate ways....(lol,sounds drama)

and when he comes back for the salam karai, i want to be there beside him, i want to see him being teased, bullied, being made fun of, and how can i forget being stuffed with lots n lots of sweets and milk by my family .and then the fun part, him having to pay a huge sum of money to obtain his shoes back, kekekeke.

Fire works!

Then time for me to change and all and get ready for bidaai, hug lots of people, be a cry baby for the next 15 minute or so. say my goodbyes and head into the car. i expect the groom to seat beside me! the crying drama stops here. oops,hahaha.

When i'm at his place, i really hope his family would've prepared some interesting games for us. like you know 'find the ring'. and let me into the room before him so i can get someone else to pretend to be me and see if he notices the change before lifting the veil. i'll probably be super mad if he can't tell it ain't me.

and i don't want to be fed so much cause that'll be the end of me :(

Day 5: I wouldn't mind doing the 'cook your 1st dish' ritual. followed by breakfast brought by my family and then our chit chat session. Would be hoping for more fun filled stuff to do if not i'd probably want to sleep after much hetic days

Day 6: Reception -

I want to get dressed then go meet my husband by myself, you know those he's standing there waiting for you then you go and pat him and he turns around all smiles. hahahaha, i  watch too much wedding videos!

Photo shoot!

Head to the reception area and i want us to be seated together on that swing sofa. i probably wouldn't know half the people there so he would be a great help to keep me in the know of who i'm meeting and greeting.

The day would end off with me going back to my home to stay but if i could ( I strongly doubt I can have this) i would want to bring m husband with me.

Technically this would conclude the wedding. There'll be a day when his family would come to bring me home (his house). Then friends and relatives would take turns to call us to their house for dinner.

Thinknig of all of this is much more fun and relaxing than having all this written out. i'm exhausted so byeeee!